As much as not being ourselves is seen as something bad. I see and observe so much beauty in it as well. For example a person that transfers from a motivation of desire into innocence. Me having a motivation of innocence when they do so they give me permission to be myself by not being themselves, they remind me of who I am. So not being ourselves at times can be beautiful too. And of course it happens all the time where we are being different levels of who we are, that too has a role. In that we get to see who we truly are through conditioning, through the other not-self and self behavior through what we consider “wrong” and “right” behavior. It s all beautiful, fascinating, and entertaining when you surrender to being yourself…simply observing the movie or life.